1. Speak to Lead, Not to Be Liked
Drop uncertain phrases:
Stop using “I think…” → Be confident and say, “The best path forward is…”
Stop using “I feel like…” → Be confident and say, “Here’s the strategy…”
Speak with clarity and conviction.
Own your point of view—you’re in the room for a reason.
2. Remove Emotion, Show Composure
Emotion clouds judgment and weakens trust.
In tense moments:
→ Pause. Ask calm, clarifying questions.
→ Stay data- and logic-driven.
3. Communicate with Authority
Know your purpose in every meeting or conversation.
Don’t just “show up”—contribute meaningfully.
Speak with intention:
“My goal today is to align on X and address Y.”
4. Master Strategic Questions
You don’t need all the answers—ask better questions:
→ “What’s the biggest challenge you’re facing?”
→ “What data supports this?”
→ “What would it take to prevent this from happening again?”
Great leaders are great problem untanglers.
5. Stop Oversharing & Over explaining
Over explaining = insecurity.
Be concise. Make your point and land the plane.
Confident communication looks like:
→ Clear statement
→ Graceful delivery
→ Full stop
6. Body Language & Voice
Sit up straight. Shoulders back. Eye contact.
Speak with volume—not a whisper.
Use calm, controlled hand gestures.
7. Be Consistent and Disciplined
Consistency builds credibility.
Discipline ensures your tone, messaging, and presence stay aligned—even under pressure.
Leadership isn’t about one moment—it’s about how you show up over time.
Confident leaders don’t need validation.
They speak to drive outcomes.